The internet may be desensitizing kids to violence, but didn’t that whole trend start a long time ago with television? It’s just that now with the internet kids have their own network to broadcast violence from as opposed to just watching at home and then silently taking it out on a peer sans film crew. YouTube is filled with videos that contain fights or other violent acts, they have policies set up that remove videos if they’re deemed violent or contain nudity. But the task of filtering through the thousands of videos that are uploaded daily is a daunting one and it does take the site a bit of time before they can remove a video that’s been flagged. The most recent and publicized violent video on YouTube is of 16 year-old Victoria Lindsay being attacked by six of her female classmates while two boys were posted as lookouts. Lindsay had been lured into the home where she was attacked and then beaten unconscious, placed on the couch till she awoke and then backed into a corner and beaten some more. All of this while one of the girls was filming the atrocious acts so that it could be posted on YouTube as some sort of ill planned revenge for Lindsay’s supposed comments about her attackers on her Myspace page. Since police released the video of Linsdays attack to the press there has been a media circus surrounding the whole event. It’s been an utter melee of networks fighting for coverage of the girls first court appearances and parents being interviewed and of course running the video of the beating will probably never get old. As if the story wasn’t strange enough, Dr. Phil McGraw, of the Dr. Phil show, had some of his staffers bail out one of the attackers, Mercades Nichols from jail. The teens all had their bail set between $30,000 and $37,000. The Dr. Phil show later decided that they would not go through with the show that Nichols was supposed to be a guest on due to the shows guidelines being compromised.
There is a general sense of outrage directed towards the attackers online and in the media. But some are blaming the Internet for all of this violence because it was manufactured online (Myspace comments) and intended for online use (the YouTube video). One former bully, Rob Havilland, 32 stated that, “yeah, if we could have showed our beat-downs online then I’m sure that there’d be a lot more of em’ and I’d probably be in jail still.”
So what can parents to do ensure that their kids aren’t the victims of bullies or that they aren’t the ones doing the bullying? According to the director of Safe and Drug Free Schools for the Cadillac, Michigan Area Public School District, Danette Crozier MSW, “the only way that parents can be sure is to snoop. I had one mom come in who has an older student and she told me that she goes through his Myspace and AIM accounts at least once a week. Privacy is earned.” Crozier runs a program called Second Step, it’s an anti-bullying program that has had a great deal of success in her school district and she’s hoping that other schools will implement the same style programs to make sure that violence and harassment aren’t a normal part of any childs school day.